Trying to find your soul mate isn't always easy, especially if you don't want to go the whole hanging out at bars route. However, there are ways that you can potentially find the love of your life without having to hang out in bars every night of the week.
There are websites that you can use that are specifically for meet-ups. These meet-ups aren't necessarily for relationship purposes, but for people who share a hobby or interest to get together and discuss their mutual interest.
If you found that you were unexpectedly pregnant and chose not to have an abortion, were not in a situation where it was possible to terminate the pregnancy, or found out when it was too late, you might decide to put the baby up for adoption. This is a good situation for the baby because it will allow him or her to be adopted by a family that is definitely ready to have a child and will be able to provide for the child.